048 - Learn formulas for cold outreach, saying no, and managing distraction.
Also, dealing with imposter syndrome and Tim Ferriss' secret to happiness.
Here are this week’s links…
Nancy Li on Shyvee Shi’s Product Management Learning Series (link)
I love a good template, and Nancy was generous enough to share her cold outreach template, in 30-sec elevator pitch form.
Hi, xxx, this is Dr. Nancy Li, I am a Group Product Manager and YouTuber. I launched the first 5G Edge computing product in the world and my AI smart cities product received Mayor’s best practice award. I'd like to discuss the Director of Product position. Looking forward to connecting.
Greg McKeown’s NOPE formula (link)
Greg uses the formula to say no politely and gracefully. And, he suggests giving it to AI as a prompt to draft “no” emails entirely.
Navigate your limitations
Outline your priorities
Provide explanations
Establish boundaries
Lessons From Nir Eyal (link)
I’m a fan of Nir’s work, so I’ll keep plugging it here.
Some highlights:
• So what we should do is be mindful, and reduce the time we spend on distractions, in order to prioritize what truly matters.
• (We need) to be escaping discomfort in a healthier manner (than distractions)
• We’re escaping a (negative) sensation.
• Discomfort is part of being a grown-up.
• We should have a clear sense of our priorities and set aside time for our most important tasks and projects.
• What do I want to become? What kind of person do I want to be?
Everyone’s Just Winging It
Combine people winging it with people being promoted beyond their competence, and you get imposter syndrome, defensiveness, and insecurity. (Peter Principle)
So have faith. That imposter syndrome you’re feeling is normal.
Tim Ferriss on the Secret to Happiness
The answer? Slow meals at least once a week, over 2-3 hours, with close friends and loved ones who make you smile and feel good.
Thanks for reading,
Andrew
